Having to end your marriage is a very difficult decision to make, but it’s one often made out of necessity. After all, no strong marriage has ever ended in a divorce. Divorce is usually the outcome of years of resentment, fear, betrayal, and various forms of incompatibility. There’s nothing wrong with prioritizing your own happiness and choosing to leave a marriage that’s become a source of stress. A Texas divorce lawyer can help you embrace change and file.

As you navigate this process, it’s important to remember it’s probably going to be very difficult to do alone. Not only are there many different legal decisions to focus on, but there are going to be many moments where you are emotional, confused, and metaphorically wounded. That’s why it’s so important to have an experienced divorce lawyer by your side. You never know what could happen during a divorce case, especially if your spouse is contesting everything.

Be Sure to Hire an Accomplished Lawyer

One of the most important decisions you make throughout this entire process is hiring the right lawyer. If possible, you should bring someone onto your case who is accomplished with cases similar to yours and highly experienced with Texas divorce laws. The last thing you want is to end up without any legal support at all. At Stange Law Firm, we understand how high the stakes may be for you. Our multi-state legal team has helped clients across the country with their cases.

It may be good for you to understand the rates of marriage and divorce throughout Texas, as it can help reassure you of your own decision to divorce. According to data from World Population Review, the rate of marriage in Texas is quite average at just 49.3% as of 2025. The rate of divorce, however, is considerably low at only 2.1 per 1,000 residents as of 2023, according to statistical data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

It can be tough to endure a divorce alone. It’s often helpful to have some sort of support system by your side throughout the process and afterward. You might want to consider reaching out to a local divorce support group like Healing Heartbreak, DivorceCare, or Children of Divorce. They can help you figure out your next moves and provide you with a judgment-free zone to discuss your fears, hopes, and concerns about everything you’ve been dealing with. It might be good.

Embracing Change

It’s okay to be afraid of change. In a divorce, there’s a change you never asked for. While you may have been the one to file the papers, it’s still okay to be wary of what comes after the divorce has been finalized. It’s important not to wallow in pity or shut yourself off. 

Take comfort in the knowledge that a divorce is you prioritizing your own happiness after being in a stressful marriage. These are some ways you can start embracing change and feeling positive about things:

  • One thing that a divorce can teach you is how to spot red flags in future romantic partners. Depending on how long you were married, you may have gotten really good at noticing your partner’s faults and how to deal with them. Now, you may be tuned in to a potential partner’s red flags and can end things before you get too invested. You may be prioritizing different traits, such as compatibility, than you were in the past.
  • Another thing that can happen with a divorce is a massive increase in your own self-confidence. Toxic marriages are often the result of one partner constantly putting the other partner down. They may have convinced you that you were the problem or that you weren’t enough. Now that you’re free, you can start rebuilding yourself as you want. Dating can increase your confidence. Don’t forget that you deserve happiness too.

FAQs

Q: Why Should I Get Divorced?

A: You’re the only one who knows why you should get divorced. Never let anyone tell you that your reasons for ending your marriage are invalid. Everyone has their own boundaries that they refuse to let anyone cross, including their spouse. Your spouse is supposed to have your back and support you through anything. When they cross a boundary, it can feel especially hurtful. If you feel like you’ve lost all love or trust in your partner, you should end the marriage.

Q: Can a Divorce Be Good for My Financial Security?

A: Yes, there are many ways that a divorce can be good for your financial security. While you may end up having to pay your ex spousal or child support, you may be able to build your savings in the long run. It’s possible that you were the primary breadwinner in the marriage, and your spouse didn’t contribute as much as they should’ve. Now, you may be saving a lot more money by not subsidizing somebody else’s lifestyle.

Q: Can a Divorce Be Good for My Mental Health?

A: Yes, a divorce can be good for your mental health. Remember that you wouldn’t be getting divorced if your marriage were strong. Your marriage is supposed to be a source of love, strength, and comfort. If your marriage was toxic, it may have been the primary source of stress in your life. Now that it’s over, you may notice a considerable reduction in your stress levels. Embrace that feeling.

Q: Should I Hire a Lawyer?

A: Yes, you should hire a lawyer. You don’t want to end up without legal representation during your divorce, especially since your spouse is probably going to hire their own lawyer. If your divorce is contested, there’s a strong chance that it’s going to be unpredictable and stressful. You will want an experienced legal professional by your side to handle your case and provide you with guidance.

Contact a Lawyer Today

At Stange Law Firm, we can provide you with the resources you need to see your divorce through to the end. Contact us to speak to a valued member of our legal team about your situation and how we can help.